Negative Sanctions

by Frances Wade...Virgo - Not entered

Yes?...No...OK I'll go
It can't hurt if I don't know
Here we are at the party tonight
I'll be free...no need to fight

"Hello young lady...would you care for a drink?"
"No thank you ma'am, I'd prefer to still think"
Then a look of confusion washed over her face
A sense of rejection I then did taste

It's alright; to me it's no big deal
No reason to question, deny, or conceal
I don't need to agree in order to "belong"
But before I knew it, someone else came along

"Hello young lady...would you care for some booze?"
"No thank you sir, my wits I don't wish to lose"
Utter disbelief his eyes did hold
Alas a queer mystery for his mind to unfold

Something a bit strange appeared to be going on
Perhaps I was imagining it--there was nothing wrong
So I continued to be content in my drug-free state
Little did I know, my choice would be everyone's debate

"Well hello young miss, I heard you haven't consumed one of these"
He said as he staggered with a bottle drooping about his knees
"I know I haven't, and I'm quite alright"
This was not sufficient, and coercing he did despite

This was when I decided I wasn't dreaming
A mountain made from a molehill, and I considered leaving
My growing disgust of others' need for me to conform
Completely reinforced my beliefs, and others were not forwarned

I stood up to leave, and headed toward the door
But no...I couldn't depart until I was preached at some more
"Well hello young lady, would you care for a tequila shot?"
"No thank you sir, you'd better move before my foot collides with your crotch"

I think the picture, someone finally did see
It took a little immaturity, but I kept my belief successfully
Who really thinks that harassment will change the mind?
I hope one day others will be enlightened; and the truth they will find.

Reason for writing:

    I went to a really bad New Year's Eve party & hadn't realized beforehand that the members actively participated in coercion toward conformity.  Perhaps in the future I will tell people that I am a recovering alcoholic, just so they'll get off my ass.    

Birth sign: Not entered
Date created: 1997-01-29 02:11:18
Last updated: 2021-03-03 14:39:16
Poem ID: 46518

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