Too Busy

by fatdad36_20 - Cancer


"I'm too busy worrying
About what life holds for my baby girl.
I am too busy,
Too tired,
Too worried,
Too nervous,
Too anxious,
Too upset,
Too overwhelmed to worry
About people and their silly looks."
So said a mother to me.
And it is true,
So very, very true.
Yet it is also sad
That we have to "worry"
About what others think of us anyway.
But if we,
As parents,
Do sometimes worry
About how others see us and our children,
Think for one moment
What our children must feel.
I do not care what others think,
For the most part,
Yet my son feels the pain
Of other's disapproving looks
And whispered comments.
He hurts when people make fun of him
Because he cannot speak clearly.
He cries when other children will not play with him
Just because he is different.
Yet through it all
He has maintained his innocence,
His sense of humor,
His laughter.
As parents,
We can still learn
From our children.
Even when it hurts.

By Odis E. Shultz
October 31, 1999
Dedicated to Justen, Rachel, Luci and Sierra
And all of our children.
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Reason for writing:

    Not long ago, I shared a poem about my autistic son with another parent, a poem dealing with how others always seem to have all the answers, and this mother wrote back that she was too busy being a mother to care much what others think.  This prompted me to write the above poem.    

Birth sign: Cancer
Date created: 1999-11-20 23:56:36
Last updated: 2021-03-03 14:41:31
Poem ID: 53803

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