Love Isn't/ Love Is

by Samantha Lowe - Scorpio

Love isn't just happiness
Just smiling, laughing, and sharing good times
Love isn't sharing every single minute together
As though you were tied to eachother with invisible thread
Love isn't holding hands
Nor wrapping your arms around eachother
And hoping that the actions prove it to be love
Love isn't appearance
It's not how you wear your hair or dress up your looks
It's not wearing make-up every second your partner is around
Because your scared of them seeing the "real" you
Love isn't holding back the truth
In fear that they'll hate you forever
Or end the relationship
Love isn't getting all that you want
It's not quitting work or your dreams just to be around them more
Love isn't lust
And lust doesn't mean that you're in love

Instead

Love is the feeling you get when you're in their arms
To be in a room full of people and think that you are the only ones there
Love is sacrificing your dreams in order for them to accomplish theirs
Love is a GIVING and a getting
Love is spending time together but still giving eachother your space
You don't want to suffocate them
We all have other friends and our own lives
Love is missing eachother when you're apart
When you're laying in bed at night wishing that they were there
Love is being the best of friends
Being able to talk to them about anything, confide in them, and look for their advice
Being there when they need you to be and having them there when you need them
Love is trust even when you've vowed never to trust anyone ever again
Love is honesty
Telling them everything even though it may risk you being torn apart
You may risk it more if you don't tell them
And they find out later on that you've wronged and then lied
Love is confiding
Laying out under the stars telling eachother all your hopes and dreams
Everything about you that makes you who you are
Love is looking into eachothers eyes and seeing not only them but the person on the inside
Looking straight through to who they really are
Love is realising eachother's faults and accepting them
For no one is perfect and you're not going to love everything about them
But you must love them for having their differences
Love is disagreement but seeing the others point of view
And accepting it as their own and not yours
Love is arguing 
For there are always going to be some
Those are the trying times that bind you together
Life isn't easy, neither are relationships
But you stand by eachother still
Love is acceptance
Full acceptance
You can't change anyone, they are who they are
The only changes that should be made are sacrifices and those are done willingly
Love is the same feeling as when you were younger
And you spun around, faster and faster
And you got dizzier and dizzier
And eventually you fell
into Love.
Birth sign: Scorpio
Date created: 2001-04-07 18:56:08
Last updated: 2021-04-14 17:18:13
Poem ID: 61702

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